READ THIS NEXT: Jack Nicholson Asked Fellow Stars to Boycott the Oscars Over This. Ryder and Paltrow were often spotted hanging out together in the late ’90s. And, on top of that, they were also dating best friends Matt Damon and Ben Affleck, respectively. According to Yahoo!, Paltrow is said to be the one who introduced Damon and Ryder in 1997. At the time, both Ryder and Paltrow were hot, young stars. Ryder was known for movies including Heathers, Edward Scissorhands, and Little Women. Paltrow had recently starred in Se7en and Emma. The rift in their friendship supposedly occurred after Paltrow came across the script for Shakespeare in Love at Ryder’s house and decided to try and get a role in the film herself. Accounts vary as to whether Paltrow stole the actual script from Ryder or whether she just saw it and then contacted her agent about a part. Either way, Paltrow did end up being cast in the 1998 movie, and she won the Academy Award for Best Actress for her role as Viola de Lesseps opposite Joseph Fiennes’ William Shakespeare.ae0fcc31ae342fd3a1346ebb1f342fcb READ THIS NEXT: Tom Hanks’ Decades-Long Feud With This Star Is “Painful,” Friend Says. During a 2015 interview with Howard Stern, Paltrow said that the story of her stealing the Shakespeare in Love role from Ryder was completely made up. “That’s an urban myth,” she said (via HuffPost). “I swear to God I did not, I’m raising my right hand on the Bible. I swear to God.” Paltrow also confirmed that she hadn’t seen Ryder in years. For more celebrity news delivered right to your inbox, sign up for our daily newsletter. In 2009—when Paltrow’s lifestyle website, Goop, was still new—she sent out a newsletter about a former “frenemy” who she was glad to hear had gone through a “humiliating” situation. “Back in the day, I had a ‘frenemy’ who, as it turned out, was pretty hell-bent on taking me down,” Paltrow wrote (via Lainey Gossip). “This person really did what they could to hurt me. I was deeply upset, I was angry, I was all of those things you feel when you find out that someone you thought you liked was venomous and dangerous. I restrained myself from fighting back. I tried to take the high road. But one day I heard that something unfortunate and humiliating had happened to this person. And my reaction was deep relief and…happiness. There went the high road.” Of course, because of the rumors around their former friendship, people assumed that Paltrow was talking about Ryder, who had made headlines in 2001 when she was arrested and convicted for shoplifting. Paltrow never confirmed the theory one way or the other.
